If you are asking yourself these questions then you are close enough to someone to realize they may be in need of some help. Even though that person may come to you with a problem and you are willing to help, there are circumstances which may indicate the need for professional guidance, especially if you feel like you are "in over your head" and unsure what to do for the person.
Some people accept a referral to a mental health professional more easily than others. It is generally best to be frank with the person about your concern for them and any limits of your ability to help - limits of time, energy, training, objectivity. It is often reassuring to a friend to hear that you respect their willingness to talk to you and that you want to see them get the best and most appropriate assistance available. Someone experiencing confusion may feel comforted to know that they don't necessarily have to know what's wrong before they can ask for help. Assure them that seeking help does not necessarily mean that they have serious problems. It is possible that their concern is one of the common reasons that college students seek help from the Counseling & Consultation Center .
If you are concerned about a student and want to refer them to the Counseling & Consultation Center , you can:
1. Inform them of our services and help them make an appointment by either calling 448-8538 or coming by Moody Hall #110.
2. In daytime emergency you can have the student come (or you can walk with them) to our office in Moody Hall, Room 110. All they have to do is identify that it is an emergency and they will be seen immediately. If possible, try to call ahead so we can be ready for them when they show up. After regular work hours, call the SEU police (448-8444) and they will summon a counselor on call or other emergency assistance.
We are also available to talk about your concern for the student and assist you in making the referral. |